Whoever you're struggling with, if it feels like it's always about them, you might be dealing with (their) personality disorder.I can help you understand how to cope with these challenging relationships, while providing tools to communicate more effectively. Whether I'm working with you individually or as a couple, I offer insight on the workings of both genders to increase your understanding of relational dynamics as you learn about yourself and others.Of course, men are not necessarily consciously aware that they are doing this—but they are.
In contrast, if they follow more "assertive" biological imperatives, they are labeled "jerks" and "players"—who may get sexual gratification, but not love or respect from what they would consider a "good woman".
To the extent that a man she is dating passes (or fails) these critical tests, a woman may be able to make a decision as to whether or not a budding relationship is worth much more of her time and energy.
Especially in these hard economic times, a single woman who has a secure job needs to appreciate the fact that what she has to offer in a long-term relationship is much more valuable than being perky or skinny.
This is, in fact, the way most single men approach dating.
Men are much more likely to "rule out" a woman who does not meet one of their critical criteria for a good match.